If we keep our new baby in our arms for the first time that most parents, a solemn promise that, in order to give them the best start in life. We believe we need to be suspended at any positive opportunity, if they are to succeed in life.
But this way, we are guilty, that too much pressure on them? Recent studies have shown that 20% of our children suffer from this fear that the high psychiatric treatment.
Many parents have strong opinions about the nature of childhood is the best for their children. They are determined, they appreciate that the first years of present and they play in the garden, buildings and caves in the hunt for fairies. Fun, that is what they believe childhood, everything revolves around not force-fed activities.
They want to teach their children in their own pace, and develop their own preferences and interests. In this context, a lot of dough to play, colors, blocks and clothing to Dressing. But sad to say, life is not always follow the planned route. In the space of a few precious years to see that their lives are on the clock and a complete schedule before or after school to school. Children and parents has been expanding, and above-excessively tight.
Why is it parents feel forced closure ‘fit’ with all the other families they know? It often starts when children at the beginning of the school. The so-called “warm welcome” The children seem “Roads ahead” have learned many skills from pre-school activities and classes.
That is, where is defined on the debt, “my child, I neglected the development?” The children are happy, sociable, happy with a wide range of basic skills. But spreads in today’s world, highly competitive? Panic sets and parents think their children have to play “Catch up” - fast.
This is wrong, but if good intentions can often cause problems.
Before they know, parents have their children in many classes of school because they are on the role, swimming, dance, gymnastics and the arts, etc. The children seemed “they” but what the burden of family and the social life?
I’ve heard parents to the school door to store afternoon, a tent housing when their children can play together or go to a party. Sometimes, the date set, because the weeks preceding the day the books packed.
But there comes a time when children at home swimming or fitness room, broken. They barely have the energy for tea and eat them too tired for their bathroom or bedtime story. They note that this is not a sense of healthy children after hours of fatigue. The symptoms of fatigue and courts show that they are temperament rather on the mental and physical exhaustion. They no longer have the energy to do what she loved.
We have our children suffer from this stress.
Hopefully this, really careful when parents recognize that in their efforts to play “Catch-up” they are actually a step backwards. Once the debt steps and you wonder why you did for your child.
Take a look back on your own childhood. There was little or no distractions, even “desirable”, so that you have learned to self-perpetuating. (This is a skill that many children are no longer and reason, I often think why they in trouble, nothing, or when there is no one in their charge).
Reading was a tedious task not joy, it was inter alia in full course. Remember the magic moments for themselves, friends gathering to climb trees, get this one, an act of play in the rear garden. Activities that are of particular importance, because you have organized, it had itself in your own time and at your own pace. She had time and space to follow your dreams, but how can we EVER children if we are not themselves the time and space.
Now, I am not saying that there is no room for activities after school. I firmly believe that every child should learn to swim and give him the possibility of a particular talent. What I think we should things over instead of trying to pressure us to impose ourselves, fourvoyés by debt.